Bdsm And Perversion

Bdsm And Perversion

 The word “pervert” means “abnormal (person), unnatural, abnormal, whose attitudes and behaviors are not normal or deviating from traditions and customs.” It means.

According to this definition, in a way, we can call people in bdsm perverts, but at the same time we can’t. because the degree of abnormality in question is very important. Especially when we say pervert in our language, this term is a bit harsh since things like pedophilia, rape, zoophilia and necrophilia come to mind in general. Because even in psychology, because of these situations, which are separated as “benign perversion, bad perversion”, the word kinky, which also means pervert in English, is generally used for bdsm.

This issue needs to be addressed. In a country where boys are raped in religious schools, little girls are raped by dozens of men, animals are abused, the dead and even household goods are not comfortable, it would be a little unfair to address the people mentioned in the same way as those who whip each other. because as we mentioned above, bdsm is built entirely on consent and desire. Kinky positive individuals with good mental health are not motivated to force anything on anyone. For example, the news of rape is frequently seen in the newspapers, but it is not news that one person urinates on the other. so sometimes it happens but it’s not realistic either 😉

Creating labels for bdsm such as a severe perversion or mental illness only comes from ignorance.

even in this context, we can characterize bdsm as a benefit in many respects. Because people who meet these abnormal impulses in their private space in a way that everyone will be pleased with will start to look less narcissistic, less aggressive, more comfortable and cooler in their normal life.

Another benefit will be that it completely changes your perspective on the concept of sexism. bdsm officially knocks down patriarchy, revolts against genders, recreates the perception of sex. because sex is sex, it doesn’t make much difference who puts what on whom. In this sense, you will discover how empty your delusions are, and how wide-ranging pleasures actually are in sexuality.

How To Live Bdsm

Now let’s say you’ve read this article so far and you believe you have bdsm orientations. The first thing you should do is share it with the person in your life. You should definitely not think that when you have someone in your life, they won’t understand you or believe that it will humiliate you. otherwise you will never be happy, you will always be dragged into an absurd life divided into two. you have to put aside your prejudices, none of the apps are skipped stuff, none of them require special training except for a few things. You can enter into a small exploration process by sharing the issue with your partner in your life at the moment, providing a role distribution, consulting with “with his consent”. You don’t need to play blood right away, so -blood game-… 

In addition, if you do not have a partner and do not want to partner, there are women we call “prodomme” who serve in the field of bdsm and you can apply for certain fees, but the service you can get from them will generally remain in the bracket of femdom -female domination-.

If you want to become a partner, you can try your luck on bdsm-related social media. fetlife is the leading one of them, but at this point, if you intend to relate, do not underestimate the people around you. It’s unlikely that you’ll be there with an attitude like “they go all the way, do everything, just like that”.

If your search is for sex, bdsm media won’t provide that, in general, most of the members basically orient themselves to achieve sex, but they can’t be permanent, and neither can you. get away from this idea. Also, do not think that there is no love or affection in these environments. We know that a lot of people got married under this roof, they even wore handcuffs at the ceremony instead of rings, so it’s fun.

Don’t try to apply it yourself if you are not competent enough, even a simple wax dripping job will bore you when the right material is not used. Do not try to attract vanillian people in your life under the umbrella of bdsm. don’t try to create your own master or slave if he is not interested.

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